Let's be real :Why are sista's so hard on eachother: My rant

Now we know in reality that women sometimes have a rather difficult time getting along whether it be in the work place or a social setting. As you can see from the picture there is a Caucasian woman and a African American women. "It doesn't make you less of a woman to give another woman a compliment." But in my opinion and in my personal experience black woman have the hardest time doing this.

Disclaimer: I know this isn't the case for ALL black women and can have cultivating relationships but in retrospect this odd black girl thinks its sadly very prevalent specifically among black women.

I am sure you all seen tons and tons of articles,  the videos and the and debates on how critical black women can be on each other. This may not pertain to ALL sistas but I feel as though its' a major and rather unnecessary issue in the black community.

Well I want to give my personal opinion on the subject.

The Assumption of the Meek Spirit

If you follow my blog, which may I add  many of should do I did a post a few months back called "The Black Introvert" discussing the stereotypes and personality traits that society thinks we are supposed to naturally have.

Well I'm going to dig a little deeper and take a more general approach on laid back personality which in most cases tend to be misunderstood.

Some people tend to usually think calm people:

Lack strength

Lack knowledge 

Lack power

Not go-getters

Get lost in the mix

Easily shaken and broken

In my personal experience, people tend to make their own assumptions about a person, when they just can't quite figure you out. Calm, quiet and laid back people usually assume they are homebodies, not assertive or sociable, can't handle the attacks of the enemy.  So not true at all! Ahhhh the ignorance.......

Some people are just more subtle on how they approach or attack a situation. No not being "sneaky" but by being quiet and strong in their faith.

A quiet person, may not always be in the forefront for everyone to see or voice "I'm doing this, that and that for the Lord!"   They could very well be ministering to someone by making a phone call to someone who is hurting, listening to them or just simply smiling  at someone on the street. That's ministry.

That's how creative my God is. He uses our gifts, talents, character and personality to bring others to His kingdom.

I always loved the quote "Meekness is not weakness but strength controlled." There is so much power in being quiet and letting God move.

Me being quiet waiting on God.There is strength in silence. Meek spirit.

Honestly I think some of us get caught up in business...ripping and running and never take the time out to listen to the voice of God.

 

 

1 Peter 3:3-4

 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.

With that being said, a calm meek spirit doesn't mean a weak disposition. Glorifying Him isn't always glamorous,it won't always require pomp and circumstance, or a public service announcement for the whole world to hear and see. A gentle spirit can still be bold and tenacious.....yet still subtle with their method. Never underestimate the blessings that are done behind the scenes.


Be blessed!

 

Ode to Alvin Ailey’s Revelations

Whenever I need dance inspiration or have dancers “block” I have always researched and watched Alvin Ailey dances. Years ago I have had the pleasure of seeing them in a live performance at the University of Buffalo. But every now and then I pop in a DVD or watch them on You Tube. And believe me it is truly healing for the soul.

Me in dance mode!

The Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater’s epic performance “Revelations” takes you on a journey through slavery to freedom in a series of dance pieces. This performance has been respected and loved by all generations throughout the world as it explores the hardships and victories that African-Americans faced in history. Revelations breaks the racial barriers and has been replicated and studied by many other dance schools and companies.

The Incredible Hulk inspired makeup look: PICTURE HEAVY

Gotta love the Marvel comic book characters. So instead of acting out as the Incredible Hulk I just put all my energy into my makeup and did my own take on it. More subtle yet fun and bright at the same time. I love purples and greens especially once it comes to eye shadows. It's definitely wearable!  You could do this look for a night out to the movies....or any fun event. 

Green mascara gives it more of the "Hulk" look

Super quick post: Nemo & Nostalgia

Ahhhhh the snow storm Nemo . Trapped inside the house. Yup that good old cabin fever. Unsafe roads. Make it a movie or TV series night. It's nothing like nostalgia to relax  you on blistery nights like this. So yes I'm all set with my electric blanket and my Complete Fifth Season of the Facts of Life. (Mind you I also have 3 and 4). Team Nerd!

So what's one of your favorite nostalgic movie or TV series?

Stay warm, be safe, and have a blessed night!

XOXO,

Court

Comic book character Bumblebee inspired makeup look

Hi!!

I love comic book superheros so I decided to do a makeup look on DC's comic book character Bumblebee aka Karen Beecher-Duncan. I love everything about this picture,  from the contrast of  the colors yellow and black ..... the strength she represents and the fact that she's a sista! 

I looked a little tired in my pics with my wild eyebrow (odd and unique brow)....I did this so late at night lol. Anyway I put my own odd girl twist to create this look. Hope you enjoy!Want to know what I used to create this look? Or where I purchased the products..... Hit me up!

WARNING: Picture Heavy!!!

Bumblebee

Django Unchained from The Odd Black Girls perspective

This my good people was my eager Facebook status update on Djano Unchained on the drive home from the movie (I was in the passenger seat!No texting and driving okay!):

       

Disclaimer :I'm not here to dissect the whole film but to simply express MY thoughts and views. What instantly comes to my mind. No essay here! I am not a movie critic nor a historian. Oh and I realized I spelled Tarantino's name incorrectly in my Facebook Stat lol.

I had no interest in seeing this film at first whatsoever. But I gave in! To the controversy that is.

Let's be honest folks, this movie is clearly is not for everyone. While I sat in the movie theatre I saw at least one interracial couple and a black couple walk out in the middle of film mumbling "I can't watch this". Using swear words of course.

Maybe it was the flat out use of the N-word, the shackles on whipped scarred black men , the crude humor and characters, the pitiful run down looking black folks, the unusual random humor about KKK head sheets.... just to name a few. Roots on steroids maybe? Just maybe? Where is Levar Burton?