Let's be real :Why are sista's so hard on eachother: My rant

Now we know in reality that women sometimes have a rather difficult time getting along whether it be in the work place or a social setting. As you can see from the picture there is a Caucasian woman and a African American women. "It doesn't make you less of a woman to give another woman a compliment." But in my opinion and in my personal experience black woman have the hardest time doing this.

Disclaimer: I know this isn't the case for ALL black women and can have cultivating relationships but in retrospect this odd black girl thinks its sadly very prevalent specifically among black women.

I am sure you all seen tons and tons of articles,  the videos and the and debates on how critical black women can be on each other. This may not pertain to ALL sistas but I feel as though its' a major and rather unnecessary issue in the black community.

Well I want to give my personal opinion on the subject.

The Assumption of the Meek Spirit

If you follow my blog, which may I add  many of should do I did a post a few months back called "The Black Introvert" discussing the stereotypes and personality traits that society thinks we are supposed to naturally have.

Well I'm going to dig a little deeper and take a more general approach on laid back personality which in most cases tend to be misunderstood.

Some people tend to usually think calm people:

Lack strength

Lack knowledge 

Lack power

Not go-getters

Get lost in the mix

Easily shaken and broken

In my personal experience, people tend to make their own assumptions about a person, when they just can't quite figure you out. Calm, quiet and laid back people usually assume they are homebodies, not assertive or sociable, can't handle the attacks of the enemy.  So not true at all! Ahhhh the ignorance.......

Some people are just more subtle on how they approach or attack a situation. No not being "sneaky" but by being quiet and strong in their faith.

A quiet person, may not always be in the forefront for everyone to see or voice "I'm doing this, that and that for the Lord!"   They could very well be ministering to someone by making a phone call to someone who is hurting, listening to them or just simply smiling  at someone on the street. That's ministry.

That's how creative my God is. He uses our gifts, talents, character and personality to bring others to His kingdom.

I always loved the quote "Meekness is not weakness but strength controlled." There is so much power in being quiet and letting God move.

Me being quiet waiting on God.There is strength in silence. Meek spirit.

Honestly I think some of us get caught up in business...ripping and running and never take the time out to listen to the voice of God.

 

 

1 Peter 3:3-4

 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.

With that being said, a calm meek spirit doesn't mean a weak disposition. Glorifying Him isn't always glamorous,it won't always require pomp and circumstance, or a public service announcement for the whole world to hear and see. A gentle spirit can still be bold and tenacious.....yet still subtle with their method. Never underestimate the blessings that are done behind the scenes.


Be blessed!